Solution+Research

Two new sources. 15 notes for each solution. Thorough Statements. Identify which solution your supporting.

Solutions: 1. Go to a organization that helps with domestic violence like La Casa de las Madres. 2. Safety plan that helps you get out.

Research:

"La Casa De Las Madres." //La Casa De Las Madres//. 2012. Web. 04 Apr. 2012. .

1. La Casa de las Madres is a place where teens and adults who have been abused go to cope. 2. It provides them with support, safety, shelter. It helps you deal with your problems. 3. They give them the help to transform their lives and start living healthy and free again. 4. They explain the cycle of abuse. 1st stage is the tension building stage it is when it is minor physical and verbal but it is still there. 5.Second stage is when the partner explodes and abuses you this is called the battering stage. 6.third stage is the honeymoon or make up stage. this is when they shower you with gifts and apologize. Repeat. 7. Every relationship is different and has its own patterns of abuse but most people experience the cycle of abuse. ^ 8. Helps teens recognize the cycles of violence, the signs of abuse, and identify a healthy and unhealthy relationship. 9. Speak to someone on the crisis hotline if you don't want to be face to face with them. 10. Go to the emergency shelter, they have up to 35 women and children there each night. 11. The shelter is and up to 8 week stay, enough time to get back on your toes and have a plan. 12. When you have court cases you will always have someone with you for support and so you wont feel alone. Also police assistance. 13. They have counseling and support groups and advocacy and assistance. 14. They offer a permanent home for the victims to ensure stability. They have people working there at Mary Elizabeth Inn just in case they need to talk or more sessions to get over trauma. 15. Provides them with long term of support and help.

"Personalized Safety Plan - Domestic Violence." //Introduction//. Web. 05 Apr. 2012. .

1. Have important numbers near you and your kids or make sure they are memorized just in case something happens. 2. Have a code name to symbolizes help for your neighbors or kids to know to call the police. Let neighbors now so if they hear violent noises they can call too. 3. Have several different SAFE methods to get out of unsafe relationships. 4. have a safer place, a place that if you feel like your partner is going to harm you go to that place. It has no weapons or anything harmful. 5. If there are weapons think of a way to get them out so no one is harmed. 6. Think of places to go so if at any given moment they decide to kick you out you have a plan. 7. Always keep clothes and money or anything important around you in case of these times. but keep them hidden. 8. Think of trustworthy friends and have some of your bags at some of their houses and money. 9. Have friends who will help you escape and find or open their home to you. 10. Keep change if stranded because partner got angry. 11. Come up with plans of how to get your children out also without them getting harmed. 12. Practice ways of leaving try to get out of the house a lot to get use to leaving. 13. If you leave, change cellphone numbers, aware neighbors if they see your abuser to call the cops. 14. Have certain people names who are alowed to pick up your kids just in case attacker comes after them. 15. Change locks and get a PPO. (Preferred Provider Organization)